It's a joy to be HIDDEN.

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The day I began to live is the day I discovered being an introvert is awesome.

I know this is going to be hard for dynamic and enthusiastic extroverts to believe, but some people are happy being introverts. Being an introvert, I always remained quiet and used to shy away from people. I've been told an uncountable number of times to change myself and speak otherwise I won't fit in according to them. For being quiet, I was mistaken to have an attitude.  
I just want to ask people Is it really necessary to speak, to spit out words that don't even make sense? Is it necessary to get involved in gossips like you all do? Don't you people realize I am much more comfortable in being quiet? Even if I fake myself will it make any difference to you? No it will not make even the slightest difference. Can't you even handle someone's silence? Are you that incapable? When you can't understand someone's silence, you will never understand their words. 
You must have heard that the quiet people have the loudest minds. Yes that's definitely true. You won't be able to handle if these minds started speaking. You must understand that I keep company with silence that's where my soul speaks and my mind finds peace. I'm honestly much more content sitting alone smiling to myself than being out in uncomfortable situations where I've to pretend being happy with people who don't even care about me or doing things that are pointless to me. I'm an emotional archeologist because I look for roots of everything,like why you people behave in a certain way pretending everything. I observe more than I speak, just because I'm not speaking doesn't mean I've nothing to say. I feel a sense of joy in being quiet that only the introverts can understand. Silence is a source of strength to me. Writing is my perceptive choice to communicate my thoughts. The funny thing about being introvert is that if I feel comfortable with you I'll be the most talkative, funniest and an enjoyable person. It's like being two persons in one because I'll either be super quiet and shy or I'll be the loudest hype person ever and it all depends on how comfortable I'm with you. If we connect the slightest it means you matter to me.
Just try to connect with the introverts don't force them to change or to speak because that way you are making them uncomfortable. Connecting with the introvert souls may sometimes prove to be an ever loving experience for you all.


Thank you for taking out a few minutes to read this with patience. Will be looking forward to your responses in the comment section.

Comments

  1. BoiMay 24, 2020 at 3:35 PM

    👏👏👏👏👏

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  2. Smita Verma (Roop Vani)May 24, 2020 at 3:42 PM

    Great job ☺️💓

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  3. UnknownMay 24, 2020 at 3:55 PM

    Nice

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  4. Rishabh RanjanMay 24, 2020 at 4:03 PM

    Very well written and yes i must say being introvert is better than being a fake person and yes i know one more fact about introverts they never harm anyone thary always do good to others

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    1. MashuMay 25, 2020 at 6:55 PM

      Thank you Rishabh...😇😇😇😇
      Yes you are right even if they are hurt they don't think about doing that same to others because they know the pain of that.

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  5. SarthakMay 24, 2020 at 4:34 PM

    Wooooahh👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

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  6. UnknownMay 24, 2020 at 8:11 PM

    👏👏

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  7. UnknownMay 24, 2020 at 8:12 PM

    Awesome 😃😃

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  8. Divyanshi TiwariMay 24, 2020 at 9:17 PM

    Nicely written

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  9. AvinowMay 24, 2020 at 9:18 PM

    I am in😊

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  10. AnonymousMay 24, 2020 at 9:31 PM

    Absolutely right.

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  11. Rishabh SrivastavaMay 26, 2020 at 3:16 AM

    In my opinion being introvert has many disadvantages because in almost every real-life situation Introverts often get labeled as weird or snobbish.They tend to ascribe a lot of negative traits to the introvert.but 80% of the time the introvert is a shady character. Just because they take themselves out of the mix and remaining with in their comfort zones they don't always get the party invitation. They always struggle to expand their networks because they lost the chance to know more people, network, hear their stories, get ideas for their stories, make friends in new city, and also build stronger relationship with their teammates. Introverts are often overshadowed at work because when it comes to any group task, their efforts are mostly ignored because they never bothered to highlight how difficult the task was, how important their part was for the complete project, or how they were also busy helping others and still managed to complete the task.

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    1. MashuMay 26, 2020 at 12:49 PM

      I knew you will say something like this only 😝😝😝😝
      BTW being an extrovert too can have it's disadvantages. Introverts may have a small network or a few friends but their bondings are really strong.

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  12. UnknownMay 26, 2020 at 9:21 PM

    I think it is not always good.One must be expressive.But nature varies from individuals.

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    1. MashuMay 26, 2020 at 9:25 PM

      But then being extrovert too is always not good. It's all about everyone's point of view.

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  13. Thakur AnupriyMay 26, 2020 at 11:27 PM

    Quite impressive 👌

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  14. UnknownMay 27, 2020 at 9:34 AM

    You're try to explain the feelings of someone's in terms of your words, a very beautiful way and nice thought...

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  15. UnknownJune 25, 2020 at 2:44 PM

    I have one introvert friend whom I talk very less but after an year he became my best friend. When I start spending time with him I realized he is the most reliable person with sharp brains though he didn't score well in studies cauze he's a gaming beast.
    Please give time to them in order to know them well otherwise you'll loose a precious relation.

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    1. MashuJune 25, 2020 at 6:04 PM

      Yes, you are right it takes tym to know an introvert but once you understand them they can be the most interesting people.
      I believe scores don't define someone's intelligence.

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